The funny thing about online sex on free sex sites is that it’s very easy to misinterpret. There are many literal people. In some circles the world literal is actually a code word for dense or stupid. And it’s very tempting to look at people who interpret online sex literally as quite obtuse. Seriously. I mean it’s assumed that when people have online sex that we are talking about consensual adults. We are talking about people who are at or above the legal age to have consensual sex.

Also, sex that is worth talking about has to be consensual because non-consensual of course is illegal. It’s called rape. Unfortunately, when you ask a typical guy and you ask them how to define online sex you’d get that ridiculous definition of “Yeah, it’s two people over the age of 18 having sex with each other who are not forced to have sex”. Well, no duh. The reason why you still need to keep asking that question is because from to time you run across very, very developed, educated, mature and interesting people. In other words, these are people you want to hang out with. These are people who give you mental candy. What I mean by mental candy is that they are so awesome to talk to because they throw out ideas and they also absorb ideas that help both of you grow. And when it comes to sexuality and talk of online sex, women who know how to give out mental candy are few and far between. They are definitely the epitome of awesome online sex partners.

Sadly, a lot of women out there who possess a tremendous amount of brain candy are already taken. The good news is that some of the guys that they’re with are more than happy to share. They’re in open relationships. I’m not talking about cuckold relationships. That’s something else. That kind of relationship is where the guy gets off being humiliated by watching his woman getting fucked by another guy. That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about open relationships, meaning, that the chick is free to fuck whoever she wants and the guy is free to have sex with whoever he wants.

You just need to be on the lookout for that kind of online sex because you know it is a gateway to high levels of maturity. These are people with no spiritual, emotional hang ups. They’re all about freedom and they’re all about helping you and them grow. As you can probably already tell this is quite rare. It’s like hunting for a unicorn. But just like hunting for unicorn, if you are able to snag one it has definitely been worth the effort.